Tylersmumny yep this year is going fast. Cmon Xmas... And new year. I want my baby safe in my arms in Feb.
And hubby passed his head cold virus thingy onto me and there's not a thing I can do about it :( boo.
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Tylersmumny yep this year is going fast. Cmon Xmas... And new year. I want my baby safe in my arms in Feb.
And hubby passed his head cold virus thingy onto me and there's not a thing I can do about it :( boo.
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Blessed has birthed her little boy, 25 weeker, keep the both of them in ur prayers ladies xxx
Thoughts and prayers to blessed and her little boy xox
Blessed hope you and your gorgeous son are ok xx sending loads of get well fast vibes xxx hugs
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Blessed, you and your little man are in my prayers. I pray that your lil man goes from strength to strength. Big cuddles for your both.
Skybie, thanks for letting us know.
All my love,
B xoxoxoxox
Thinking of you, Blessed and your little babe.
Hi everyone, I won't get into my story 'cause it's too long and besides, the signature tells all...pretty much...but I need STICKY VIBES. My betas are rising but it's hard to trust this. Will have a scan in 2 weeks, and they will look for a heartbeat. I am going nuts here.
Blessed - thinking of you and your wee man. Keep strong my precious ones -- both you and your son. You are in my prayers, and sending you all my strength.
Sunshine - GL with this cycle - good that your betas are rising..... the first 2WW is the hardest.... sending you lots of sticky-ness. Hope that your darling Obie is keeping this little one snug as they start their journey. I was overjoyed to see you posting again. Big squishy hugs my dear.
Belly rubs to everyone else...
Blessed - I hope you and your little man are recovering well and your wee fella has a very speedy recovery.
Sunshine - Im sorry that you have gone through the heartache of loosing a child and I wish you luck with your beta rising and sending you :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy:. And gl with your scan hope there is a nice beautiful heart beating away.
AFM - 23 and 3 days :) my scan is soon so I get to see how my wee girl is doing FX they can have a rough estimate of how big she is. Grand final weekend this weekend DF is excited lol.
Blessed, i am thinking of you and family. I have everything crossed.
Welcome Sunshine, I hope you find the group a great support.
AFM, I had my 20 week scan and our baby boy looks good. The bad news is that I might be suffering from early onset cholestasis. The doctors are watching my bile acid levels very closely.
Laney - Great news about your scan. Thinking of you hun hope the doctors can do something.
AFM- Baby girl weighs 1lb 11oz which is 753 grams bigger then what Tyler was at the same gestation.
Blessed - just saw your news. You and your little man are in my thoughts and prayers. Big big hugs xxx
Thanks everyone :)
Thanks Skybie for updating.. Hope everyone is well. We are good today. It will be a loooooong road, but we will get there xx
Blessed - oh sweetie, I am so relieved to see you on here briefly and even more so that when you posted your wee man and you were ok. I am in Brisvegas my blossom and I can try and help out any way you need. So let me know. I can cook you some meals and bring them to the hossy, I can get your groceries or run some errands for you. I will PM you my mobile number, just txt or call if you need anything. I don't know what your journey is like, but I do know what it is like to have loved ones in hossy for a long time. Sending you all my strength and love.
Laney - oh sweetie, always bittersweet - good news and worrying news at once! Glad your little man is doing well. Sorry to hear you might not be so well. I don't know much about it, except it's something to do with the liver. Let me do some research as then I feel like I can understand what you're facing. But in the meantime big squishy hugs to you and Grayson and Brexton.
Tylers Mummy - glad you got through your milestone date. It's so hard. Good that your little girl is doing so well. You are are great mummy, look at her growing! Well done.
LnD - good to see you! You too are doing a wonderful job.
Miss B - Happy birthday to Joshua for yesterday. I posted in another thread but wasn't sure then if you read that one. Thinking of you and DH and Joshua and Cam. Hope you did something special or at least had some quiet time to reflect. 3! Can't believe it. Feels like yesterday in so many ways.
Not much doing here in terms of joining this thread again soon. But FX as always. I am considering becoming an egg donor for one of my friends. I am the second runner though, someone else offered first, and I am older, and might be precluded because of my history ( both preg losses and adoption) but also because I am not finished trying to have my own babies yet. But I am going to do some research today. I am willing to do it for her though. I hope I am not precluded...... my friend was also thinking about sperm donnor and she suggested my DH. That's a bit of a spin out. Not sure why. I suppose when I made the offer it was me making it, but when she suggested DH it was her choice? Anyway, enough rambling.
Belly rubs my gorgeous mummas. You are doing the most amazing thing. Keep believing in yourselves and your bundles.
Blessed - Good to hear from you hun. Thinking of you as you have a long journey xx.
Dory - It was hard but I made it :) Thank you xx. FX for you and hopefully you will be joining us in here very soon. I wish you and your friend good luck, Im unsure of what happens but im sure you know what your doing. xx
dores, what an amazing gift you have offered your friend!!! i always wanted to do egg donation or surrogacy to help a family become a family, but now that i have diabetes i dont see that happening. too much of a risk to either pass on to the baby through my DNA or the risk of another sleeping baby if i were to carry anothers child.
AFM 20 weeks to go!!! nearly so excited
Hey all...
How are we all going?
Hopefully cooking up healthy little bubbas.
Afm ... Well, Bubs has been quite quiet today not kicking a lot..... I'm sure it'll make up for it tonight whilst I'm trying to sleep.
I've booked a scan through a private scan place that does 3d imaging etc... At $250 for the package it better be good and bubs better show us his or her bits lol hurry up November 7th lol
Anyways is better go and cook dinner. DH at work as usual and parents and brothers in Bali so I've got no one to chill with till DH gets home. It's going to be a boring week lol
19 weeks to go... Can't come quick enough :) just want to make sure my bubba is well cooked and safe in my arms....
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Hey girls first app at the hosp today, its at ten.and ive already bought up last nights tea and im.shaking like a leaf. I dont want to go!
Lysn - Im having a crap week DSS and DSD have brought the flu to our house and of course I get sick! I cant eat anything :( my throat is swollen. YAY for your scan it'll go by fast so dont worry lol FX s/he shows you what s/he is. Aw well atleast you have peace and quite I have to watch the same shows everyday!:wall:
Skybie - Good luck for today, thinking of you we know how hard it is xx
AFM - I am sick and tired :( but can't do anything. Hoping DSS and DSD are quite today my head is throbbing.
Hope you other ladies are doing well!
My belly looks like Its shrinking I don't look 21weeks :( wish I actually look bigger and pregnanter lol
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AH stupid hospital I sat for an hour just to be seen by some lady who had completely no idea about my history. She asked me if my DSD was my first I answered no and said shes my step daughter then she said oh is this your first I said no she goes ok your second I said yes then she asked me how he was fricken doing?! HELLO YOU HAD THE NOTES IN FRONT OF YOU... When she asked I said hes dead.. She went quite and apologised. All is well though no gd's. Just needed to rant a little.
Oh honey. Big hugs. Hope your going ok. Xxx some people just need to learn to read histories. That's terrible xx :(
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Sunshine - how is your 2ww going? Time for a scan to see how your little embie is going?
Skye - oh sweetie - I am sorry you were so nervous and sick. How'd you go?
LnD - ahh the thing is, you look more pregnant to other people than you do to yourself, maybe it's as we are always looking down on it and as you know we all have mirrors that make us look super slim.... LOL. Just relish YOUR bump the way it is. Although I do remember what it's like to have bump envy, even though I loved mine, I thought I could have looked more pregnant? LOL I look at the pics now, and realise I did, I just didn't see it at the time.
Tylers Mummy - oh sweetie. How insensitive of her. That person won't make that mistake again, but I am sorry that they made it with you. Did you burst into tears when you told them Tyler had died? For some reason, when I talk about my wee angels, I often don't cry anymore, I tear up but don't cry, but when someone asks me out of the blue, always the tears come. Hugs. I know how hard it is to have to retell your journey.... hope you're feeling better too with your cold/flu. Even harder when you're pregnant. Take care of yourself.
Hmm, well I am off to bed. Feel a bit under the weather, like I am coming down with the flu. But HB has been really unsettled lately ( like the early days) so I am hoping it's just fatigue symptoms. The other option is today is 8DPO and I have been peeing like a madwoman, hungry as all get out and feeling run down, all classic early preg symptoms for me. LOL, for wishful thinking though no testing for me until AF doesn't show. Can't be bothered with having to always buy tests. So the end of the week or so and we'll know about AF, and maybe tomorrow to know about whether I have a cold again. No prize for guessing which one I'd prefer.
Hi Dory--
I don't remember which forums that I said stuff on...but I am miscarrying AGAIN. DARN IT ALL. There was no heartbeat at 6 weeks, measuring too small, etc, etc. We were told that the pregnancy isn't viable...despite the IVF being a success in many ways. My symptoms vanished seemingly overnight before our appointment so I had a "heads up," but this is difficult to take 'cause my body is still holding on, so to speak. Like it can't make up its mind...no pun intended.
Congrats to you and all the ladies.
I will be MIA for a while. Hope you understand.
I WANT A TAKE HOME BABY.
sorry, I just needed to scream that to the universe, somewhere.
AND I MISS MY SON.
okay, now I am going to be quiet.
I am so sorry to hear that hun. Huge, big sqeeshy hugs :hug::hug::hug: I really hope and pray that you will have a take home baby one day. It must be hard missing your wee man, I miss mine so much too. If you ever need to chat, pm me hun. I come on here every now and then, when I have the energy to post! I've also had the IVF treatment. I lurk more than I post, and meant to welcome you to belly, sorry hun.
B xox
Lys - I thought she might've read the notes that were on the computer and also in front of her.. oh well it's done now I will be making a complaint about her though.
Dory - I don't tear up I dont know why I feel bad for not..All I was thinking is "dont yell at her" I had DSD who's 3 with me which would've been a bit silly if i did..I have no idea how many times I've had to tell people it just getting silly that I have to repeat myself :(. Im getting better I had a bit of a sleep in today which felt good I probably needed it lol.Oh FX for you hun hopefully its not the flu.
SaS - Big hugs to you hun Im so sorry that it wasnt a sticky bub. My thoughts are with you and I hope and pray you will get that take home baby soon.
AFM - Not much going on here, I dont know if I told you ladies but DF got a new job doing the grain harvest out in the bush so we will be moving there very soon. Oh and only 13 weeks till I hold my beautiful baby girl! I'm getting more and more excited :)
TM im sorry the mid didnt read ur notes before u saw her, one of my biggest fears this time around. thankfully though ive been dealing with people who were there when jack was born so its been better.
We're having another girl. im struggling with this news majorly atm
Don't tell my husband, but I wish I was in this thread... Damn it, I'm the one who convinced him to have 3-5 years between kids! Now I want another baby next year and I know he won't go for it... :wall: I should've let him have his way when we first discussed it, he said 1-2 years :lol:
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Sky - I understand why its a fear now.. Im lucky as I didn't go to the hospital with Tyler for appt's etc only to my local gp. I do wish that I had've though so it would be easier.Congrats on a wee girl hun. It'll take time to get your head around it but you will. Sorry to ask but why are you struggling with the news? You may have said a while ago but i'm not to sure sorry if you did.
Teni - Why not talk to your DH about having another one?
Sunshine - it was the other thread... scream and shout all you want... like miss B said, big squishy hugs.
Tylers Mummy - good that you're getting excited. Thanks for asking after me, its very sweet of you.
Sky - be kind to yourself as you process your feelings about having another little girl... I could say some stuff but I think in the end it would just be me putting my own thoughts on to you and you don't need that. Just sit with your feelings a while. They are valid feelings and it's good to go through them now. Hugs.
Teni - you can convince Scott... but before you do, why did you think you wanted a gap of 3-4 years? Give cuddles to your princess from us.
It's weird how we all go through similar emotional responses to some things. I was petrified of going back to the hossy where Amelia was born, but I made myself go back a few times immediately after she was born and then later too, shaky legs, roiling tummy, not sure if I'd collapse or not. It was hard, but I wanted to overcome my fears. Afterall, it was the place where my first child was born. It was the place I first got to meet her, hold her, tell her I loved her and just gaze upon her pure perfection. I wanted to have those as memories too, and not just remembering it as the place my hopes and dreams came crashing down and the place where she died. So since then? I went back to the same hossy for Sophie's birth. Not for Nicholas as I wasn't admitted to hossy for his arrival. And then I went back to the same place for Hannah. Being a repeat customer the service was pretty good. The staff were all sensitive to us and kind with our tender little hearts. So my hope is that once you overcome the fear, that a little bit of the fear will be replaced by a little bit of tenderness for the place where you got to meet your darling little angels. Now when I go back I stop outside the birth suites and at each room we were in and tell Hannah a little story about each one.
Teni.. come join us in here... :)
Sunshine I'm so sorry xx big hugs
Dory how r u going hun?
Skye I know it must be hard hun. My thougts are with you and your DH and family. Have you told DH about your gender disapointment does he feel the same? Hugs honey. Take all the time you need to get around those feelings. Although they may not magically go away, I know you will love your precious rainbow baby bear cub the moment u see her. Xx hugs x
OB appt in 2 weeks. 2 weeks... It feels like its dragging now... Now that I'm over half way. I just want to get to 26 weeks to be able to feel safe. Although we got really good shots of bubbas heart on the scan, I just don't know. I don't want a repeat.
Bubs has been kicking and I don't feel hugely pregnant my belly is small and keep getting the "omg u r tiny for 22weeks" blah blah blah... I haven't been able to stomach much as I've had insane heartburn and indegestion issues. Pharmacist has got me to try zantac.. which worked last night yay.
Anyways I'd best go pick my DH up from the airport, and bring him home. Busy day ahead. Have a good day everyone.
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Nah, I'd feel like a fake being in a pregnancy thread when we're not even TTC...:
Dory: I originally said it because my brothers and I have 5 years between each of us, so that's all I really know. I reduced it to 3-4 because I want more (live) kids than my mum has. Plus I was scared of dealing with a toddler and a newborn at the same time. Turns out, as much as I complained earlier this year, I actually am pretty good at the newborn stage :lol: So I figure, give myself a new challenge :p
Well ttc then lol:
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Tashybabe - Im unsure weather or not you read this forum but big hugs too you for tomorow hun.. I will be thinking of you xx.
AFM - Last night I had a bit of a downer, I was on DF's facebook as his brother and SIL are expecting a baby to be born soon and so I had a look at there profile where his SIL had wrote on Monday that she only had 24 days to go... Which means that DF's first nephew will be born on the day our son died.... I broke down a massive wave of sadness came over me and I just stared at DF saying "you know when there having him dont you?". I couldn't stop crying I know that it cant be helped that there babe will come when hes ready but why on that day.... I just feel so fxxking crap, I want Tylers birth and death date to be his in this family but no :( ah this is so sxxt. Well my rants over.. We have DSD's birthday this weekend she will be 3. Tomorow night I will be lighting a candle in memory of Tyler and also other angels gone to soon.
Thinking of all you ladies tomorow it is a hard day xx
I am officially here, in my own right, and not as a voyuer. CD 32 and a BFP! Must get myself a ticker.... BBL
Belly rubs.
Tylers Mum - hope you're feeling better after news like that. Hope the 3rd birthday went well for DSD.
Dores!!!!!!!!!!!!!!woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
**** dory!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations!!! I'm so bloody happy and excited for you!!!
:leap: Dory!!!! Oh my goodness! Congrats, lovely lady :D
Omg Dory that's awesome news. Congratulations sweet xxx
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Wow! Congratulations Dory! So glad I decided to stalk this thread this morning!