thread: Pregnancy after Late Loss, Recurrent Miscarriage or Stillbirth ~ November 2011

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  1. #1
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    Jan 2008
    Pittsburgh, PA
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    dory, congratulations! I hope everything is going well. Please give us an update.
    Jo!!!!! How exciting!
    Klee, glad to see you back in here too!

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2007
    Surrounded by kookaburra's laughing
    628

    Jo - how you feeling?
    Laney - great to see you, how are you and your beautiful boys, they are gorgeous!
    You two might be best to ask this, we found out bubs sex yesterday, still not convinced she got a good look, maybe in denial, but I know you both have lost boys and girls (so sorry you have had to go through both xxx) but how did you cope/handle knowing you were possibly having same sex as you'd lost? I mean that as in I am not coping too well and am interested in any strategies/ mechanisms to help, and not at all unhappy with what we're having just scared of it going the same way
    Last edited by klee; July 3rd, 2012 at 09:27 PM.

  3. #3
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    Jan 2008
    Pittsburgh, PA
    469

    Oh Klee, I am very excited for you! I wish i had some great advise that will make the next few months easier for you. I was a mess through all of my pregnancies and the only thing that helped was to see my doctor often. He was great about giving me extra visits and scans to help me relax. I think having all boys did make things a tiny bit easier for me. After i had one i knew that my body could do it. I'm sure if i had been pregnant with another girl it would have been like starting all over.

    we are doing well over here. Adjusting to life with 3 little ones has been an adventure. I feel like things are finally starting to settle down. We decided that our family is complete and that was very difficult for me. I am starting to feel better about it and trying to really enjoy every minute with my boys.