Hi Teagz, I haven't called the baby in my belly Luca yet but I have accidently referred to him or her as he, even though we don't know the sex yet. I do worry a little that this means in some way I think it's Luca or want it to be Luca, but only a little, because it's only natural to want all our babies. I'm sure it's just part of the wanting. Our new bubs will have their own emerging personality and identity and will be loved for themselves, and our lost babies will never be forgotten either.

xx Bec.