thread: Pregnancy After Stillbirth/Recurrent Miscarriage/Late Loss September 2009

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  1. #1
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    May 2009
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    Hi all,

    Teagz, thinking of you today!! Can't wait to hear all about it.

    AFM had my 12 week ultrasound on thursday. Never had that one before so didn't know what to expect. Risk was 1 in 152 for age but 1 in 3650 from the screening, so I'm happy with that.

    Was worried when I first went in the room because they had the big screen on and the last time I saw one of those Luca's unbeating heart was on it. But it wasn't too bad. Bub was waving arms and legs around etc so I think that helped a bit. We got some cute pictures. So I'm glad we decided to have the 12 week scan this time.

    xx Bec.

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    Bec, I'm so glad your scan went well hun. Great results! How are you feeling these days hun?

    B xxx

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    May 2009
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    Hi B, anxious but well! I've been lucky not to have any M/S with this one. Don't hit me!! Got a bit of energy back too.

    Hope your M/S is finally going away (for good).

    xx Bec.

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    Hey Bec, I know all about anxiety! I'm OK most of the time, but if I get really crampy (which I don't really, it's ALL in my head lol) I get a bit worried. I'm still getting some pains on one side generally (like when you've ovulationg) mostly on the left side, do you get that? I know when I get a bit of cramping it means things are streching in there, so that's all good. I ordered myself a fetal baby monitor, don't know if I did the right thing, but I thought I felt lots of small pokes in there (didn't feel like gas) and then it stopped. Sooooooo, I totally panicked and went looking for the monitor. Again, I know it's still too soon to feel regular movements, but I want to hear that heartbeat! Am I being silly??????
    m/s is getting better hun, I can eat pretty much when I want, although I still get a bit nauseaus in the afternoons. Tiredness is slowly disappearing, I have more energy now. BUT, if I walk around a lot, I get quite breathless and 'heavy' down there . Is that nornal??? You are so lucky not to get m/s this time around, I didn't have any last year and this year I did. I've convinced myself we're having a girl!
    Hope you have a great day hun, lots of sun out there!

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    May 2009
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    Hi B, I have never gotten crampy during pregnancy but lots of people seem to. The heaviness I've gotten later on. Maybe from about week 30. And it definitely happened walking a lot.

    About the doppler, I hadn't thought of it myself, but I went to a SIDS and Kids support during pregnancy meeting last week and most of the women there had one. I think you should do whatever it takes to stay sane!! One of the women there was 34 weeks pregnant and said that she got one fairly early on and used it most days between 12 weeks and around week 20 when she started feeling regular movments, and not so much after that, except if she had a particularly anxious day. Sounded pretty good to me.

    It's normal to get breathless... I've read our hearts have 25% more blood to pump around when pregnant! So we need to breathe more to get oxygen to all that blood.

    xx Bec.

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    Bec, thanks hun. I have a app. with my OB tomorrow to go over my NT results, I'll be asking my 'millions of questions' then!

    B xxx

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    Hi Bec, glad your scan results were good . I get anxious just before the scan as well & look for the heart beat straight away. Anyway, great news that bubs is doing well.

    Hi Beata, I get 'crampy' like ovulation pain as well. In the last few weeks I'm now mainly getting pain at the bottom of my belly. From all I have read, its all very normal & your right, just the uterus stretching. It would be worth asking your OB, what pain isn't normal so it gives you more confidence to distinguish the difference. On the monitors, I was recently given one and the first thought that came into my head, was oh no! I think they can cause more stress then there worth to be honest, it depends on your approach to them. If your looking for a heartbeat to ease your mind that everything is ok, you could get very stressed if you can't find it and that is highly likely at this stage of your pg, so just keep that in mind. I have used mine a few times & haven't found the HB. I had a check-up at the hosp last wk & it took the MW quite a while to find it, he/she was hiding in such a funny position, I had to sort of roll on my side and she found it around there! Anyway, all I am saying is be aware that you may not find the HB everytime. My monitor says not until 20-wks at the earliest anyway. I am sure your little chick is doing fantastically, I still get quite worried at times as well, but try & enjoy it and know little one is doing great!

    Teagz, you probably won't read this for a while but Congratulations on your wedding, I am sure it was beautiful, here's to a lifetime of happiness for you & your DH and little family (arriving soon)

    Hope everyone is well.

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    Hi Megan, wow look at your ticker hun, it's flying! Thanks for your comments about the monitor. I did question if I did the right thing buying it, even my OB told me it's tricky picking up the hb sometimes. He laughed at me that I bought one, but he also said do what ever eases your mind, but don't panic if you can't find the hb! I explained to him that I felt some movements a week or so ago, and that I was really excited, but then it stopped for a few days and I panicked. He said it's all very normal not to have regular movements and pokes at this early stage. When I saw him today for a check up following my NT scan, he even had trouble finding it just like with you! I have to say I held my breath nervously, and of course all these horror stories came into my head Eventually he found it, and he said the bub was just in a funny position. I did hear a lot of swimming around in there and plenty of acrobatics! lol.
    Hope you're keeping well hun, not long til your 20 week scan....are you finding out the sex?

  9. #9
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    Hi ladies
    Well preg brain has really taken hold...here I was thinking it was very quiet it in here but NO...a new thread lol...found you lol!

    I get crampy and still worry ...but after seeing bub with a beautiful little heartbeat I feel a little more confident...so far so good!

    Hope everyone's doing ok!

  10. #10
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    Sep 2008
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    Hello,

    Quick post to say that my 19-week scan went really well, all very normal and nothing to worry about, so quite happy & relived about that. Starting to get quite excited about my little bundle. Have started looking for baby furniture etc, made up a list of things we'll need & costs, and couldn't believe how expensive it is.

    Hi Ellie, I don't think I have met you before. Congratulations on your pg & I wish you a happy & healthy 9-months. Great news about seeing the HB recently, every milestone is such a big deal and a great relief as you get through them. All the very best.

    Hope you are all well. x