Again! (Number 2)

[Netix]

Well, back in here again! Have just confirmed (with a pee on a stick test), that I am pg again. I have a fifteen month old, who was breastfed until she was about 11 months old, and I have only had two periods. I think they were only 21 days apart (which I thought was odd, and sorry if TMI), and that was in March, and I hadn't got back into the swing of writing them down, so I think my last was on 27 March. Which makes me due on Christmas day, according to the bellybelly calculator. But, if I change the length of my cycle to 28 days, it makes me due on New Years Day! Talk about some choice dates!
Ha! I just text my fiancee about the dates. His first message was "OMG!", and the second was him asking if he can still go away motorbike riding at Christmas!
I am happy, but very nervous about how I am going to go with my little girl. How much less time will I have for her? And love? She takes up 99% of my time as it is. I know she is meant to take up a lot of my time, but I can't do anything without her. Even when my Mum and Brother are over to look after her/help me with things, I still can't do any of my Tafe study unless she is asleep. And she hates day sleep! How am I going to go with another one! (Or three. The Man says he bets its three, cos I said it better not be two).
Now he's telling me he's going to have to get an urvan! This is his doing too!
Hmm. Well we need to get a bigger house. We have a three bedroom (not real big), and there is also my step son who is 11 who is with us every second week, for a whole week. I would put him back into the small room that bubs is in, and bubs and new uber bub could share a room, but the Man doesn't think that the two sharing would work. And I doubt that he would go for the idea of putting Boy back into the small room. (He has too much crap laying around, and I don't think he needs such a big room for only being here 50% of the time, when I sometimes struggle in the little room- Grr, personal vent there.) We rent, and the Man wants to buy a house, and wants me to talk to my Mum and Brother about vendor finance from them, but I don';t even know how it works!
That should do me, sorry about the long thread/vent.
I am happy. Nervous, but happy.
Oh, and we were supposed to be getting married in September, which we have now postponed until after uber bub!

[AmandaJ]

Congrats on your pg.

Have a wonderful 9mths.

hugs xoxo

[Celsie]

Congratulations!!! I'm sure you'll find a way to make it all balance, after all, you are a Mum.

[nickers]

congratulations either way it will be the best xmas/ new years present ey!
i understand your worry of splitting time between children, it can be hard sometimes but you will work it all out and I have found my second is a lot easier going than my first, maybe because he has never had my FULL attention 24/7 like the first??
wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy

[cheekyfrog]

Congratulations on your BFP! And such auspicious possible due dates
You have time up your sleeve to sort out the accommodation issues but you're right to start considering them now, so that your decision won't be a rushed one. ROFL at your DF's reaction: "OMG! Can I still go motorbike riding at Christmas?" Very funny
Wishing you a very happy and healthy pregnancy!

[Netix]

Thank you all for your positive replies of support.
Today I feel like crap, mainly have a headache, and the Boy has to decide where he wants to live, either with us or his Mum. It means he would be going to a completely different school, and I can't have him living here all the time and just being at his Mum's on the weekends and holidays. He does nothing that I ask, and the Man is of no help. Sorry about the vent, but its REALLY p***ing me off, and the Man doesn't seem to think that its an issue until the Boy makes up his mind to live here, then we'll sort it out. Anyone else thinking the words: "horse", "gate", and "bolted"? I am not happy. Being pg is not helping me feel any better.

[[M]umma[M]ia]

congrats!!

[Netix]

RIght-o! Just got my blood test result back today. WHich I thought was to tell me a due date (since I don't really know!), and to also make sure all is okay with the bub.
THe result? Yep, I'm pregnant! WTF! And nothing else in the result, all okay, no action needed.
I KNOW I'M PREGNANT! SHHEEEZZ! Then the nurse said to me they "predict I'm about six weeks along, does that sounds right to me?" GGGGGGRRRRRRRRRR! I DON'T KNOW, THAT'S WHY I HAD THE BLEETING TEST!
Well, I thought i was about seven or eight weeks along, last week! So on;y God knows I guess. Not impressed. I've also being told to get on the folate "as some of my levels are a bit low" (what levels, I thought there was on;y one sort of folate?!?) today. I have been on pg vitamins for a few days now, so I guess I just haven't picked up all the folate. Oh, I don't know! Now I am annoyed at having to have more blood tests "anti-natal" to make sure bubs is okay. Grrr. I can't even remember having them last time for Steph. My apt is on Monday. Am also annoyed that if I didn't ring them back cos my cordless phone went flat, I wouldn't have known my folate was down, or that I need an apt asap to get more blood tests. And I'm afraid of needles!!!!!!!!!!
Said it before, and I'll say it again, GGGGGGRRRRRRRRR
Hmm. So not very happy now, and to top it all off, I feel sick.