hey thanx kbowman. And we found out the sex of the baby yesterday and my husband and I we are having a boy, yeyyyyy. Now we are stuck with 2 names sebastian and johnathan. my father in laws name is "john" but we hate that name john, so if we were to name our son it would be johnathan not john, but we both like the name sebastian better than johnathan. we will see close to the birth. any suggestions. as my husbands side has no boys just 2 grandaughters of my brother in laws kids. we are not that keen on naming our son after our parents, but i know my father in law will get upset.