Firstly, congratulations on the pregnancy!

I understand your concern over telling the rest of the family. Most people dont understand why you should have more than 2-3 kids max. Large families are loud, lots of work and very expensive, so they think you must be crazy right? But it is so worth it! I am the eldest of 6 children, and I loved it. Sure I never had my own room or designer clothing, but I had 5 other best friends to play with every day! We are all still very close, and I couldnt imagine life if my parents had decided to have only 2 of us. It would be way too quiet for me.

Dont worry about what anyone else thinks, its your family, and your new baby is loved. That is truly all that matters. Good luck.