oh man thanks everyone! I have tears in my eyes!

did another test on first response last night and a very very strong +ve, blood test today

Cheryl/Shanti/LizJessie - so nice to hear from you girls, I remember 'hanging out' for months with you lot!

MrsHendo - yes the cat thing is sooo strange, they definitely have a sense of things!

everyone else really really big big thank yous! It's hard to keep this quiet for the first trimester so good to come in here!