blackduckies: Thanks for sharing you story. I felt a little relif. We never planned to live in the house for more than 8 years, we have already been here 4. It is a starter house and not the one we want to grow old in as it is too small. DH will get his family farm, but we are looking to buy a house next door, just waiting on the older man to want to sell.

So there is no point in doing an extention now.

If only DH could have an awaking like that, maybe he would want more children. However I do want to be too old having them. It get tought we each baby only 'cos I have more to chase around be it is born. Along with they keep getting bigger.
DS2 9lb 15oz...

Anyway I better go, pumpkin soup is calling my noise/tummy...
(TG is veggies and not McDonalds)

Cheers