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thread: It's still a secret !!

  1. #73
    Registered User

    Nov 2005
    Bright
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    Congratulations once again Trish. It really is good news and i sure hope your DP comes around. Maybe when the M/S is in full throws he might notice and wonder whats up! Hope it all works out for you...xxxx

  2. #74

    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
    5,374

    Congratulations Trish - I am hopig for a wonderful response from DH to this new little person. Big hugs

  3. #75
    Registered User

    Sep 2004
    Sydney's Norwest
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    Another day spent dancing around it and coping loads of negativity. Apparently he thinks it would be the en of us finacially, emotionally and our relationship. Just fantastic hey.

    Sometimes I think it would be just easier to leave and do it on my own.

    Bloody male.

    Thanks Fi, yes the cluck is hard to shift but I have brand new nephew and he is more than fulfilling it. This sure wasn't done on purpose. It's the fact that he has the thought in my head that I was trying to fall in the first place that has me stuck. That certainly wasn't in my head.

    Oh and MS has hit me well and truely, or should we say all day nausea. It's killing me. I'd rather just have a chuck and get it over with.

    Thanks Lousie for the invite. I will get there hun. I think it's just another part of me accepting that this is real. KWIM?

  4. #76
    Tigergirl1980 Guest

    Oh hun, it must be so hard. People always cope some way or another. Sure you might have to tighten your belts a bit more or something like that but things always have a way of working out.

    Maybe you should just bite the bullet and tell him instead of just dancing around it. Just like a band aid, do it quickly. Then if it all blows up you might be able to sit down and discuss it and work it all out instead of walking around on egg shells?

    Good luck for when you do decide to tell him though.

  5. #77

    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
    5,374

    Oh Trish I agree with Bec. Do you think you can just come out with it? It must be so very hard to keep quiet and be dancing around things. I am thinking of you... :hugs:

  6. #78
    Registered User

    Feb 2004
    Adelaide
    317

    Hi Trish
    Congratulations !! I really think you might feel better if you tell him sooner rather than later.. the anxiety cant be helping you not feeling well *hugs*
    I hope it all works out for you hun, it must be really tough for you xxxx

  7. #79
    Registered User

    May 2004
    Shepparton
    4,871

    Trish...
    You need to tell him now! LOL
    I think if you keep it from him any longer he may resent you for it for longer.
    Maybe tell him that you think you might be pregnant... a little bit of a fib, but it may help you

    GL (((hugs)))
    Tanya

  8. #80
    Registered User

    Jun 2006
    Apparently in about 7 months I will be a qualified midwife - yikes!
    1,248

    Trish, you know why such a late response from me - can't believe I was away when this got posted.

    A huge congratulations to you babe, but also huge hugs and loads of support sweetie for the daunting task of dealing with your DH.

    Am always here for you hun!

  9. #81
    BellyBelly Life Member

    Jul 2004
    House of the crazy cat ladies...
    3,793

    Congratulations Trish... and all the best with telling your DP hon. :hugs:

  10. #82
    Registered User

    Oct 2005
    Gold Coast, Qld
    630

    Congratulations Trish, fingers crossed for you that it all goes smoothly. Welcome to the Mother of five club, lol. Good Luck

  11. #83
    BellyBelly Life Member

    Aug 2003
    Karingal, Vic
    313

    Congratulations Trish

  12. #84
    BellyBelly Life Member

    Nov 2003
    1,861

    Congrats Trish!!

  13. #85
    Registered User

    Jan 2007
    Sydney
    908

    Congratulations Trish!! Come join us in Belly Buddies .

  14. #86
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    In a BIGGER house!!!
    644

    Congratulations Trish!!!

  15. #87
    Registered User

    Sep 2004
    Sunshine coast, QLD
    1,474

    Congratulations Trish

  16. #88
    Registered User

    Jul 2004
    5,756

    Oh I just knew you'd be posting in here again for yourself one day Trish! Congratz. I hope the talk with DP goes well .Wishing you all the best.

  17. #89
    Registered User

    Sep 2004
    Sydney's Norwest
    4,954

    LOL, Thanks Tegan

  18. #90
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    386

    Congratulations!

    Welcome to the 5 CLUB!

    All the best breaking the news to your DH.

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