Ok it's true!

[Oscar&Grouch]

Afternoon Ladies

After the past couple of weeks laying low on this site.
i have come to suprisingly announce that i am already preg with #2.

I know it should be a HAPPY time for me and my DP but i cant seem to beat myself up over it.
my LO is only close to 5 months old and well me and DP had a bit of a woopsie on our anniversary, the reason im beating myself up or even scared to post this announcement is because i feel guilty that there is women who try and try to concieve and sadly it can take them months,years and cost a lot of money. and well here i am 5 months post natal and pregnant already.
my sister has been ttc for over a year now with absolutly NO sucess. and just one night for us results in this. Dont get me wrong i am so thrilled to be preg, i just cant seem to find that happy medium with all these thoughts.
I dont by any means want anyone to think i am being insensitive by saying this about my pregnancy, i guess im just to scared to be happy and enjoy it for the thought of hurting others feelings.
My poor sister is going to be devistated.. i have absolutly NO idea how im going to tell my family and friends.


I dont know what im looking for when writing this, it just feels better when i get it off my chest.

[Muppity]

Congratulations!!

I think it is great that you are thinking of others at this time but it is also a time for you to celebrate. Don't fret about what others say - they will all cope in their own way - and I am sure that they will come around.

[Nikki87]

Congratulations on your pregnancy!

I am in a bit of a situation too, though my SIL is just pg too but miscarried previously, so i am waiting until her 7 weeks scan to then tell everyone.

I guess there never really is the right time to tell someone whos having difficulties. All the same, I'm sure she may seem a little saddened intitially but deep down - all families love the news of a new addition

Good luck

[Jahzara]

Congratulations !!

Dont worry - be happy

xo

[sloane]

I think it is great that you are thinking of others at this time but it is also a time for you to celebrate. Don't fret about what others say - they will all cope in their own way - and I am sure that they will come around.

:yeahthat:

congratulations! wishing you a very h & h PG

[Isadora]

Congratulations!! You are so sweet thinking of others, but dont put too much thought into to the point where it worries you. Sit back and enjoy hun. Yes your sis will be pretty upset, just be careful of the way you break the news to her. GL!

[feeb]

Congratulations its very sweet of you to be thinking of others, your sister I am sure will be upset but also happy for you.

Hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months

[Oscar&Grouch]

Thanks for your kind words ladies.
means alot to know your all here for me!

[Tiff+2]

Congratulations!
Your family should be happy for you and even if your sister is a little sad that it's not her with the big announcement I bet she is over the moon at being an aunty again.
to you.

[*LittleMissSummer*]

Congratulations

I agree that im sure your family will be over the moon

How far along are you?

[Stevie]

Congrats!!
your such a lovely person to be thinking of everyone else but its about you

[Oscar&Grouch]

im approx 11 weeks
im due 16/8/10!

i do hope my sister wants to be involved!

[JCE0810]

Congratulations!! wishing you a H&H pregnancy

So sweet of you to think of others

[Joeve]

Congrats. It is lovely to think of your sisters feelings but here is the thing (I have said this before to someone else who was beating themselves up)- its not like there was one baby and you took it so she couldn't have it even if you were not pregnant it would not change her situation. Enjoy the gift you have been given and while its going to be hard for your sister (I know I have been there) she will be happy for you. It may just take a bit of time for her to get her head around it!

[rhyb]

Congrats darl

[widdly]

congratulations!!!

Please dont stress yourself out about your sister or anyone else who is having dificulties in conceiving, yes they will feel a little hard done by that you are so fertile and they are not, but they will work through their feelings and feel happy for you and your next bub.

[tk1999]

Congratulations xox

[Rowellen]

Congrats
Some people are just super fertile & some are not. There's not much you can do about it so try not to feel guilty. It's not your fault, it's just the way the world is.
And send some of that super fertility my way lol!! I'm about to start trying for # 2.

ETA: Hopefully your sister will be UTD soon & you can be belly buddies