thread: OMG OMG... Still in massive shock... Bub #7!!!

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2007
    Ever so slowly going crazy...
    2,268

    Thank you so much ladies.....
    I know our families will be upset and first, we are in a bad position to have a baby financially....... so we are holding off telling them.

    But we are slowly getting excited......

    My girlfriend bought some little suits yesterday for her bubba to come, and it was hard not to remember how much I love being pregnant and having bubbas.....

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Apr 2009
    Bayside Melb.
    834

    Thank you so much ladies.....
    I know our families will be upset and first, we are in a bad position to have a baby financially....... so we are holding off telling them.

    But we are slowly getting excited......

    My girlfriend bought some little suits yesterday for her bubba to come, and it was hard not to remember how much I love being pregnant and having bubbas.....
    i have been reading this thread and i want to say Congrats and obviously you're meant to have this baby ... im a real believer in that ... NO 'accidents' just what is meant to be. If that means you have 7 children so be it!

    Yes financially it will be tricki but you sound like a down to earth women who obviously handles challenges well .... if your family has an issue with this pregnancy well remember it is THEIR issue not you and your family

    again congrats and enjoy

    cheers

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jul 2007
    Sydney
    3,861

    Hey PB, who cares what the others think, who cares if they get upset. Try not to let it worry you, this baby is going to be loved by the people that matter most to him/her. You and your DH as well as his/her siblings. Celebrate your wonderful news sweety with your beautiful young family, your bringing a brand new life into the world, that is reason in itself to celebrate. The rest will come around eventually, especially once they see that most precious little one. Enjoy your pregnancy hun, and if anyone makes you feel sad come on in here as we are all thrilled for you and your DH.
    Its funny when you have a large family how everyone close to you IRL, seem to pass comments like : Are you done yet? You cant have anymore? Its definately the last one isnt it? I have had it, thoughout my pgcy with V, seemed to not get any congratulations from anyone IRL, just stupid comments. I couldnt believe how they reacted when all I wanted was for them to be happy for us, sometimes I wonder if it was all of their bad energy that gave me such a stressful pgcy with V, and if you believe it, and I know you will even now they cant help but comment on your not having anymore are you, she is definately the last one. Honestly like it is their business how many kids my DH and I have, we arent asking them to raise our children, or ask for their approval, all is wanted is a Congratualtions and keep their negative comments to themselves.
    Keep happy hun, and know we are so very happy for you, dont let negative energy affect your pgcy journey.
    Congratulations again. Hugs