Thanks ladies!!

Im glad im not 'broken' and the cramping is normal - mine feels like someone is pushing down hard on my pubic region... hopefully it passes, it aint too comfy

Went to the doc - FIL wasnt working today but saw another doc who sent me for bloods, only to screen, not confirm. He wasnt overly forthcoming with info - didnt even advice me on what i should avoid. I asked him about foods and he said 'oh, some cheeses but thats so rare you probably dont need to worry about it'! handy! He has given me a referal for an OB/GYN so i will make an appointment to see him.

Well.. let the waiting begin!

Oh, and rach - if i go off my last period its Oct 13 (two days after our 1st wedding anniversary!!)