Hello,

Firstly, Congratulations on your pregnancy.. You seem really happy!!

as for the other stuff... I would talk to DH and explain that you really want this baby and if you and him are truely happy and in love then this is only going to bring more love to your relationship.

As for the kids, sounds like there is a bit of a story there, they also sound older so maybe they will be happy or not.. I dont have older kids so I really cant make any suggestions..

as for the mil, well she will need to accept it and get over her mood. If you and DH want this baby then she just has to deal with the cards she gets.. Hence why being a mother means you love your child unconditionaly!..

my parents didnt want us to have a second. They didnt even congatulate us when we told them. But at the end of the day Im their daughter and this is their grandchild. They give me unconditional love and support..

Enjoy your moment!! No point in stressing or getting angry over it. What will be will be..