hi all well got a bfp while we were on holidays 2 weeks ago im over the moon but hubby not so sure he already haas 2 from prev marriage and now we are expecting bubs no 3

im not too sure how he really feels he says what happenedd has happened so i can understand where he is comming from but the one thing that is really annoying me is that he is scared of what his mother is going to say she keeps asking him when are you going to get the snip you dont need any more kids you have enough.. which i get me and dh have spoken about this i am only 24 and he is 42 and i really dont like the idea of it being done cause it is so final not that i though he would change his mind but once its done its done.. so now all im worried about is that he is not going to be happy about this cause of his mum!!

he is also worried about his other 2 kids weather it is going to affect them as they dont live with us they only come every 2nd weekend if they feel like... me being a little emotional said they will just have to deal with it which i went to bed angry at him.. but woke up the next day and realise what i had said and how i was over reacting and was really angry about his mum ..

so im guessing im really asking what can i do to help them all get grip of the idea im currently only 6 weeks pregnant but will tell kids and parents at 10 weeks