Thanks ladies for your reassurance. Unfortunately things aren't great.

We had an appt with the Ob today and it's not good. At 10weeks, 2 days, there was no heartbeat and bub is behind in growth. The Ob thinks bub must have died in the last 7-10 days. We're obviously devastated. I've asked for another scan next week, just in case there's a miracle, but intellectually I know it's over.

If there's no change by next Tuesday, including a natural m/c, then I'll get a D&C. Can't really believe this is happening. I know it's nature's way, but still very upsetting. All in time for DH's birthday next week too