Sorry mods if ive posted this in the wrong spot but im just trying to reassure mums going for #3 not to worry. Feel free to move it.

Anyway, id like to say to all those mums out there thinking about having bub #3 but not sure how they will cope or if bub will fit in.
My experience (as all bubs and mums are diff), is that #3 has been the easiest so far. Erin is 'unreal'. Even though she is only 1 week of being 3 months old she self settles herself to sleep. I see the signs that she is tired, and knowing that ive not long feed her just wrap her and put her to bed and in a matter of minutes she has drifted off to sleep. Even when she stirs after half an hour of being asleep, I just leave her and she drifts off again.
She also sleeps right through the night now. I put her down at 7.30/8pm sometimes 9 and she doesnt wake up till 6/6.30am. How cools that! and i breastfeed to so its not like she has a belly full of formula. (meaning f/f bubs sleep better usually).
I had so many doubts as to wether we were doing the right thing when I was pg with her. And even when we were leaving the hospital the first day i was thinking 'oh god what have i done'. But the moment we walked in the door it all fell into place. She so belongs in our family and im so blessed to have such good kids.

So mums that are thinking of having bub #3 and are having doubts or thinking maybe they shouldnt upset what they have. GO FOR IT. You will be pleasantly surprised with how they just slot in like they have been there forever.