Thanks all of you, it's so hard because there are no hard and fast rules. I was in ER today for hours because the docs were worried about the bleed and was eventually told that it must be a loss, without a scan, and to go home. The only way to know is another scan I think.... I have told my close family and friends that bubs has probably joined its Angels, if it is still there then it will be a massive celebration.
So many people to keep their bubs with this condition, maybe it will bleed out and resolve itself.
My Pt today at the hospital was a BFP, now why would that be if bubs had gone?

Will let you know..