Hi girls, thanku all so much for your help and kindness, I eventually went in for a scan a week later and it was all gone
So, it's been a few weeks and I'm feeling much better, I was so angry at first because everything had just happened exactly how i wanted, and then, it was all gone..just like that.
I am moving forward, hubby and I have made a plan to lose about 16kgs in the next 16 weeks, then we will start our four months of preconception care, and try again in August. I have lost 7kgs already since i got pregnant woop! so I'm well on my way.
I am going to name my baby, even tho we didn't know the sex, Keike gave me the idea, and we will plant a tree and have a ceremony too, as the kids were very excited and attached already too.
Once again, thanku so much xx
That's great about naming your baby, and the ceremony. I feel so much better now that we've named ours but I hafta admit, I haven't told anyone except for you IRL. I know some people won't understand it and may laugh at it, and I'm not ready for that yet. But now I know they'll have names when I meet them again in the near future Just think, our kids are gonna be the same age!
i know! how cool is that??! I'm thinking of Oxana, or maybe Lilli-Star, but thats not very gender neutral is it?? problem is, I'm a very gender specific namer!! oh well, back to thinking...
As far as not telling anyone about the names 1. I feel very honored that you told me and 2. If ppl r rude, they aren't worth your time, you have to do what gets you thru and for us, we know we are going to get them back, so it's nice for us to remember them individually, especially if there's more than one.
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I googled 'unique baby names' and 'unisex baby names' if that helps, was surprised at how many cool ones were there.
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