Hi,
I hope you dont mind me starting a new thread for this as i cant bear to go over all the stuff that i wrote over the last couple of weeks.
Well we had our scan on monday, it was ectopic. I had to stay in and have an emergency operation, but thank god it had not ruptured. The baby was in my right tube (the only tube i had) but had died as a cause of this. The surgeon said the baby was aboute 8- 10 weeks mature. They had to remove my tube aswell, unfortuently now we are grieving for our loss of not only the pregnancy, but also the fact we will never be able to concieve naturally. I am still in alot of pain from the operation, so excuse me if i dont reply back to you guys straight away.
We are trying to make sense of all this and give it some meaning, but at the moment it just feels so unfair.
I will write back soon. I hope you all the people who messaged me this week, get to read this, as i cant bear to add this to every thread i have posted.
I am so sorry you had to go through this - how painful it must be for you both. Just terrible news and an extra blow to it all. It is just so not fair that this has happened. I hope over time the pain will heal even if a little.
Oh Georgette, I logged on here specially to find out how your scan went. I am just so shocked at what has happened. God only knows what you and Martin must be going through right now. I am so sorry, there is nothing I can say to make you feel any better, please know though that my words are sincere and that you are in my thoughts.
Look after yourself, you have been through so much, and you need time to heal physically and emotionally. When you are feeling stronger please visit the boards and let us know how you are doing, you know we are all here for you.
I am so sorry about the death of your precious baby. That alone is enough grief for anyone to bear but the grief that you will not be able to conceive in the future can only be putting your world into an even greater spin.
Words are inadequate right now. I will be praying for you.
Georgette, I am so sorry to hear of your bad news, what a double blow for you.
I hope you're doing as well as you can be in this situation, take time to grieve however you need to and remember that there are other ways and means out there for you to be able to hold a sweet baby in your arms one day. I know that doesn't help you now but there is light at the end of the tunnell.
Take care hun.
xxx
Georgette,
I'm so sorry to hear your news, no woman wants to go through what you are going through . my heart is aching for you. i hope your recovery from your operation is a speedy one and that you and your parnter get through this tough time together and will make you stonger as a couple. my thought are with you both:hugs:
:hugs: I'm so sorry to hear your news hun, I can't even begin to imagine what you are both going through, all I can offer is some online hugs and best wishes to you both during this time
I'm so so sorry to hear of your loss, I cant imagine the pain you & your husband are going through. I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers. I know there is nothing I can say to make you feel better, but my heart does go out to you & your husband. :hugs:
~ Danielle
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I'm so sorry to hear your news hun, I can't even begin to imagine what you are both going through, all I can offer is some online hugs and best wishes to you both during this time
so sorry to hear your sad news after everything you have been through.
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