Hi,
I hope you dont mind me starting a new thread for this as i cant bear to go over all the stuff that i wrote over the last couple of weeks.
Well we had our scan on monday, it was ectopic. I had to stay in and have an emergency operation, but thank god it had not ruptured. The baby was in my right tube (the only tube i had) but had died as a cause of this. The surgeon said the baby was aboute 8- 10 weeks mature. They had to remove my tube aswell, unfortuently now we are grieving for our loss of not only the pregnancy, but also the fact we will never be able to concieve naturally. I am still in alot of pain from the operation, so excuse me if i dont reply back to you guys straight away.
We are trying to make sense of all this and give it some meaning, but at the moment it just feels so unfair.

I will write back soon. I hope you all the people who messaged me this week, get to read this, as i cant bear to add this to every thread i have posted.

thanks for all your support
georgette and martin