I know. I had a friend (who annoys me no end) tell me that I just have to get on with it. Problem is I'm not a winger. I'm a suck it up & deal with it kind of person.
The tiredness was impossible. I was lucky with DS & was not going to risk another baby, because I knew I could have another girl, but DD3 suprised us.
I didn't leave the house for 5 months