Totally agree with Suse - just take it in the spirit that it's intended - which I'm sure is positive most of the time.

I'm sure I would be guilty of a, "wow, that's quick" if you were my friend. I mean, you feel obliged to say SOMETHING and somehow a simple "congratulations" never seems enough. It should be, but still.

When I tell people that we're trying for #2, I get all sorts of presumptions because of my age especially because we've been trying for a while. I get people asking me if I think I should adopt (!) or hint at IVF. TBH, I'm not offended at all, they're just thinking out loud and we're all guilty of that from time to time.