Deb i promise you that you didn't come across insensitive at all. It is a very sensitive subject and it's one that is now close to my heart. But each of us do what we think is best for us and it doesn't matter if no one agrees with you it's your choice at the end of the day.

I'm sorry of my post earlier upset anyone so much of this subject is kept in the dark. It's something i never dreamed would happen to us.

Clare i can't believe what ppl have said to you. What you did was the right thing to do and you know i would have been with you the day you had Max. Watching Craig come out of the scan room that day just broke my heart for you both. It was the very first day i met you both and it's brought a great friendship one that i have Max to thank for one day.