From what I've heard and read, DTD is perfectly safe. Apparently you can have a little bit of bleeding afterwards, but it hasn't been my experience. My poor hubby is missing out because I've completely lost my libido! He's been reading about how pregnant women can get quite a high sex drive, but it's had the opposite effect on me! Poor bugger! I think it's because I'm so tired that when we go to bed I just crash out!