Ergh I just can't relax!!

[Ahurani]

Ever since finding out I am pg I just can't stop thinking out the thought of miscarrying I'm getting sharp pains every now and then but I guess that's the uterus stretching. I'm just so scared that this pg wont be viable after so long ttc.

I'm going to the dr on Monday afternoon do should I ask for a bt? I'd be 4 weeks 3 days then.

I think I just need so e reassurance :/

[didispunk]

Yup ask for a BT will make you feel better .

I hope everythign works out fantastic.. i had period pains till 19 weeks..

[onthefly]

Cramping and stretching pains are both normal. Hope the bt comes back wonderful
It's going to take some time to settle in to the pregnancy and relax - maybe quite a while longer yet. Is there anything that might help take your mind off things or relax? Time out with friends or big chocolate binges...? Be sure to give yourself time and be kind to yourself. It's ok (or rather, it's normal and understandable) to be anxious.

[Jakabella]

Big fat Hugs babe. I am going through that same thoughts myself! I know exactly how you feel xox

Fingers crossed for both of us!! xox

[Lily Dust]

Ahurani pregnancy after LTTTC is sooooo scary and hard. I was so paranoid when pregnant with DD up until about 35 weeks actually . I had bloods 2-3 times a week from just after implantation to 8 weeks and 2 ultrasounds during that time as well! If thats what it takes to ease your mind, even just a little then you go ahead and demand those referrals. If its something to assist in relaxing about your bubba then thats what you need to do x

Jakabella, same for you hun, if it eases your mind and makes this pregnancy just a little easier then do what you need to do

[Lisa B]

Hi Ahurani,

I'm exactly the same, stressed and anxious. I think it's the LT TTC thing.

I've asked for additional BT to measure my HCG, when you get it done over several tests it has more meaning that having one single test because you are looking for a pattern of HCG doubling or thereabouts. It gives me some relief for a short period of time. My FS does a 6 weeks scan which also gives some indication of viability.

I get cramping as well, it seems to ramp up at night and can become pretty bad. I went to an ED when it first happened but they said I was fine. I use a hot water bottle and panedine to help. It seems it is the uterus stretching, of the most likely explanation. I don't really have any other preggy symptoms.

I know it's a scary time, but remember most pregnancies turn out to be just fine.

[kawazuki]

just hugs, i cant add anything to what all the lovely ladies have already said.

all will be ok..

[Joeve]

totally understandable but you will be fine - you are leading the charge out of the 12 months + thread remember!