We didn't find out for our first baby and said right from the start it didn't matter but when it came to the crunch, alls that stenographer had to say was do you want to know and we would have said yes. Just lucky she didn't, thank god, cause it was lovely not knowing. As much as it doesn't matter this time either, I think I will find out just to know whether to wash Lachlan's clothes or buy some pink ones.

I just got a BFP this afternoon, all a bit surreal still!!!!!!