Well.....i went back for an ultrasound today to see if they could find a heartbeat. But there wasn't one. My gestational sac had grown from 28mm to 40mm in 10 days but the scan showed no little lodger. I have to go back in 5 days to have another scan and double check but after that its a curette (i have prob spelt that wrong but dont really care at this point).

Thanks for your support everyone. Hopefully next time things will turn out differently.