Thanks kyliealysha, I'm more sure he'll have no choice in the matter cause it is what it is but not so sure about the job thing maybe I'm being too hard on him - with the whole new workplace reform thing going on it just all makes me nervous....Hmmmm don't know perhaps I should just try and put it out of my head until I need to worry about it but since this is my second I'm already starting to feel my tummy shape change like the body knows where to go so why wait until later lets just all pop out now!!!arghhh....