When I went to my dr, he never said anything about avoiding DTD, and said that (as most of us know) there usually is a reason why women m/c. My DP was at the dr with me and the dr was very helpful and made me feel welcome, unlike some dr do! When I first found out I was pg, my DP said we could wait until there was a safer period (if there is such a thing) to DTD, he really is very understanding. This is his first child and he is very excited about it. When we first started dating he told me that he had to be sterile as he has never had any children, and during the two years that we have been together we have never used any contraception (I guess this was really meant to be) so imagine my face when I saw those two pink lines lol.