I have not DTD either since finding out I am pg. I had a m/c last August & only found out at my 12 week scan. I was told the baby had died 2 days earlier & we had DTD this day. Of course I then put 2 & 2 together & have felt scared to have sex this pg. DH is very understanding & there are other ways to be close iykwim My Ob has said it is fine to have sex this time but it is all about what you & DP are comfortable with. Hopefully later in the pg I will feel safe enough to resume sex but I am not going to push myself. I would never want to have to go through another m/c & these are small steps I am taking that put my mind at ease. Funnily enough I have been avoiding baths also although everyone tells you they are perfectly safe (& oh how I love a nice long soak!). BTW...I had sex & baths with DS with absoluately no problems - it is just a kind of paranoia I have developed after the m/c. Do what makes you comfortable.....