Thanks for everyone's help, it's good to be re-assured. I go to a contours centre so it's sort of a gimme saying 'the gym' so it's combo of weights and cardio. but I do enjoy it so I think I'll just let the girl that's there most often know and use the secret code thingy . I agree it's difficult to not push yourself through when that's what your used too but this bub is way too precious!! Thanks again!!