Hi everyone,
this is a really interesting topic. I'm 38 and 10 weeks pregnant. My husband to be wants me to have the Downs scan. Our obstetrician said if you go through all the testing for Downs there is a risk of miscarriage. I really don't want to face that risk plus I wouldn't terminate the baby if it had Downs as much as I know the strain it would place on us as a couple. I'm in a real dilemma as my partner is quite upset that I don't want to do the test. What's the right thing to do in this situation? Would love to hear your feedback.