thread: How Do you shake that fear of m/c?

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  1. #1
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    Oct 2008
    Victoria
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    Congratulations! That's such great news!

    To answer your question, I'm with Ahurani. It's just day by day. I remember with Moo I was so stressed that first trimester, I was so sure something was going to happen. This time I'm more relaxed but it's still at the back of my mind everyday, especially having gone through a recent m/c. Good luck with the scan!

  2. #2
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    Jul 2009
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    I was in this situation and you just have to believe that it's going to be okay and that was the only thing that got me through. The first trimester felt like it was about 40 weeks long and I didn't really relax until after 25 weeks with DD. This pregnancy is the same, I'm 16 weeks and just POAS to check. *sigh*

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    Aug 2007
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    Exactly as the others have said , "one day at a time" . I dont think that feeling of trepidation ever really left me, tbh it still hasnt to a certain degree, I dont think it ever will, as a parent there is Always something else to worry about in regards to your child, ALWAYS. lol, sorry, I dont mean that to sound so down :/
    it would be nice to be innocent of all "that can go wrong" we are TTC atm, and I am **** scared every time I POAS because as much as I want 2 lines, Im not looking forward to the whole emotional rollercoaster of pregnancy emotions and symptoms again...itms?

    Sending you heaps of sticky vibes gorgeous, one day at a time xxx

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    Dec 2009
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    Oh it feels so good to hear everyone else's stories.
    Sending everyone :stickyvibes:
    I just hope my dating scan tells me I'm 12 weeks along..

  5. #5
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    Jan 2007
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    This is my first pregnancy but its so scary.

    Im 10weeks 1 day today, every day I wake up hoping for a sign (sore boobs, MS/nausea and my belly still firm). I havent had a scan yet, its not until the 19th. Even then I cant see Ill relax until bubs is here.

    Congratulations

  6. #6
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    Jan 2011
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    I believe the fear never leaves!!! We tried for 3 1/2 years with alot of ups and downs in that time and now I am 27 weeks and i still constantly stress something will go wrong

    Sending sticky vibes your way