I told my boss at about 7 weeks as I had to take off 7 days over a two week period for bed rest at doctors orders. I felt it was best to let him know what the situation was, in case I had to take any more time off. He was very understanding and didn't tell anyone at all which was great. I told one other close workmate at the same time (she guessed really), but didn't tell anyone else til the 12 week scan. Some workmates still don't know and I'm 17 weeks now. I already had extra weight on me so didn't wear tight clothes and they are coming in very handy now that my belly is expanding.

With friends and family I avoided alcohol by just saying I was driving or didn't feel like it. It worked for most people but some did catch on before I told them.