I went to the docs for a checkup & while i was there told him i was going to ask some questions when i went for my antenatal appointment.He said like what? I said oh like if they allow a pool/bath for giving birth.He gave me this incredulous look & shook his head & said i think u will find that no hospital has that sort of thing or allows that sort of thing so i said oh yes they do quite often it's just a matter of wether they let u actually birth the baby in the water or not,depending on the individual hospital.
He just stared at me for a minute & then went back to writing his notes.I almost felt like laughing.I know it was only a simple thing but it made me feel good because previously i would have just taken his word for it & nodded meekly.So i felt like i took my first step in being more confident & in control of my baby & my body,iykwim.
Does that make sense to anyone? Just felt happy with myself so i wanted to share.Thanks 4 listening