Shell,

Good luck with your scan. I am sure it will be a delight for you to meet your little one for the first time though it's through the monitor! But I think it is definitely reassuring to see your baby doing well in there! Google seems to my answers nowadays like you said since I have so many questions everyday wondering if anyone else is going through what I am experiencing. I don't trust all what the doctors say as some haven't a clue what they are talking about because they based it all on book knowledge! I remember seeing a paed for DD and the paed was telling me that this isn't the way to do it... well, I've managed it since and found out that she had no kids and was doing everything by book! Each individual is different and not one book can tell us all! Trust our motherly instincts! In the mean time, I can sympathy your DF because my DH is feeling the same way... when I worry about something, he comes home and have to hear me until I get a little settle down! Oh well, they'll have to bear with us since we are just a little extra nervous about how our little baby is doing inside of us. In the mean time, relax yourself and I wish you a healthy and happy pregnancy!