oh that sucks..
i get ur disappointment i really do ive never got to tell any one with mine my mum or SiL's did it for me lol...
my advise to u is just relax n think of hat beautiful being growing inside of u...
ppl will always try to take ur thunder but its all urs hun... when ppl ask u say yep i am really loudly n exciited so it will be like u just told them,