thanks lestypuss.
your terrible experience is exactly what I want to avoid. You had to ask for a second or third scan... you!!! not the doctor, but the distressed parent! How can that be possible?
This time I would go through a private UltraSound company (very competent and specialised in pg women), but the result would still be just a screening and it is not 100% accurate. Which means they can tell me everything is fine and later found out it is not or viceversa...
I am very confused. I can't see the point of doing an NT if I know I will go for a CVS or Amnio. Well today I have the first appointment with the OB, hopefully we will do an US and see that the baby's heart is still beating (not like in June)... then we will decide.
Thanks to all of you for your words.