sadly I have done this to my husband. His family are big on keeping it hush hush, not finding out the sex and definately not sharing possible names. Well we had 9 miscarriages before this little miracle and I told the world at aobut 7 weeks (this one just felt different), then shared it was a girl now have told the name we have decided My DH supports all of this but his family doesn't, they are all peeved we have stolen THEIR surprise.

Sadly he can't undo what he has done. But now that everyone knows you will also be able to get support and prayers from them until you reach the 12 week mark. Which with this pregnancy i was so grateful for.