ok so i'm back from the dr's, she said there is no point in doing regular bloods for HCG, and that it may not even be beneficial to my own piece of mind. BUT she did say we will have a scan at around 8 weeks to make sure everything is still going well.. Because my 2 m/c the baby died at 6 weeks both times, but I didn't find out until I was 8 wks with the first one and 10wks with the second one.. so fingers crossed, if everything is still going well at 8 wks and baby is still alive, then hopefully that means I will have a baby..

Thanks again for your replies, its great to have some support through this. xoxo