Over reacting?

[juz]

OK, here is my issue....

Im pregnate with bub no.5, and when I mention/announce it to family/friends, alot seem to be asking if it was planned.....

Exuse ME! But I dont think thats any of their juicy little busines!
Honestly, there isent much that gets my goat, but I think asking me if I planned it is just out right rude!

just wondering

[OceanPrincess]

Not overreacting at all - they are basically asking about your sex life, which IMO is way out of bounds.

I had #2 not long after #1 and was asked the same thing, I always felt like asking "And how many times have you had sex this week?"

It is no one's business but your own and yet people seem to think it is their business!

[juz]

Wooh! Glad some one agrees!
My daughters are 15months apart, similar to you.... I cant remember people asking me that tho, or it mustnve bothered me.

Its like they want to know some scaucy little goss that you litterally f@#ked up!

I really need a comeback

[OceanPrincess]

Hmm, how bout... "Yes, it was an accident, I slipped and fell on DH"

Or... "No, it was completely planned, we've been going at it like rabbits actually just to be sure we actually conceived."

Or... "No, it was planned, would you like to hear the details of how we went about it? I became really familiar with my cervical mucous."

I'll try and think up some other beauties...

[Calluna]

Nope. I got it too. It really made me uncomfortable. It's like saying "did you use contraception?" None of your damn business!

LOVE the comebacks!

[juz]

ocean princess, I love the 2nd one..... can just imagine It!

The truth is justas funny though, because NONE of my children were planned!

[skybie]

Oh you're 25?! were all of your kids planned?
Stick it up ur bum!
not an over reaction hun

[juz]

Hey skybie.... Im 37 and very happily married, with a nice house and car and all that jazz!

Just glad to hear that Im not over reacting and that the next person that asks me Im gonna slap them silly

[*LittleMissSummer*]

How RUDE! Not over reacting at all!

I got asked so many times when i announced we were pregnant with DD if we planned it or not. I just she was a surprise, a very nice surprise! The only comments that got to me were the ones telling me i should have been more careful or asking if i was keeping it..

[skybie]

lol no hun, thats what people say to me when they find out im having baby number four and im 25

[AngelPants]

Yes everyone assumed DS was an accident because we had only just gotten engaged. The fact that we were pre-ttc was a shock. Not to mention my being only 20.


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