I agree with CK... i thought BB was a place any person could come and express themselves and not be judged. I think Bec understands terminations aren't used for contraception. Anyway thats my 2c.

Bec i personally think speaking to someone both you and your partner would be a great idea, just so you both understand where each party is coming from. Although ultimately it is your choice in the end, however i personally feel it is also a joint decision that needs to be made.