So I told my mum this morning. And she was a bit disappointed but said that she supports my decision no matter what and that there is always a place for me in qld for me and the baby.
so that makes me feel alot better aboit things I just need to tlk to the fiancée more and find out what's going through his head and yeah work things out from there...
You have all been a great help and I take everyone of your comments into consideration.
Thank you