Since then a friend has just had a baby girl in a private hospital, and i am cooonstanntly getting the 'bragging' sensation that they're so much better than us for going through private (sooo annoying!)
We get that from SiL. As I keep reminding DH, she has 3 kids, and that was all she "was allowed" have (1 guess why, its all you need - got the "pelvis too small" excuse). And we had more money to spend on our kids when it was all over.