Yeah, sorry your right Jellyfish, they absolutely can not MAKE you have it.. I used too strong words there! And to be honest, there is darn good reason NOT to have it in some cases.. when I first found out WHAT it actually was, I was a bit scared, but went along with it. Personally I am ok that I had it after having two positive bubs (even though the antibody tests were both ok) If I knew for sure that my DH was neg, and that he was the Daddy, I wouldnt have it. Luckily for me though we didnt take my DH's word for it

I do think that the midwife who said that to us was also kind of having a little joke with us.. and also coz DH was having one of his little raves where he said he was sure he was O Neg, and I think the midwife explaining that kind of situation (daddy not being "daddy") was having a bit of a joke at DH and trying to get him to see that they cant just take joe blows word that he was O neg (or maybe she saw the fright in my eyes with Dh just guessing his BT lol) ANYWHO- I went along with it, had the shots and DH didnt bother getting his BT tested and we had O positive babies