Do what feels right for you.

I also find myself quite tense about DTD in the first tri. We have once since the BFP and I saw a tiny spot of 'almost' brown the next day. That was enough to make me want to avoid it. Having said that...... I think this is going to be a randy pg LOL. Crazy sex dreams are making it difficult to resist, so if I do find mysel overcome with the desire to get it on , there's only one rule. Gently does it!

Every woman and pregnancy are so different, follow your instinct. And of course, your husband has two hands. If you're feeling particularly generous........... I reccomend giving him some good old fashioned oral pleasure! Now that's true compromise.....