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thread: Soooooooo devastated

  1. #19
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jun 2008
    In snuggle land
    4,499

    That's good. After 6000, HCG levels become irrelevant. A scan will give a better picture. I hope they find something safely in your uterus.

  2. #20
    Registered User

    May 2013
    27

    years

    Just been for scan there is nothing in my uterus, nothing in my tubes or anywhere outside my uterus.... So I'm pregnant with hcg level at 8960 but no baby ANYWHERE in my body

    So after a screaming match with my partner about NEVER asking me again to try for baby 4 (his number 1) I am waiting for the GP to call me to tell me sweet FA really


  3. #21
    Registered User

    Oct 2010
    Gold Coast
    2,638

    Hug ..

  4. #22

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
    2,873

    I'm so sorry.

    Why do they think your hcg is still going up?

    Are they willing to do a lap to see what the cause is? Have you had any bleeding or anything?

  5. #23
    Registered User

    May 2013
    27

    I'm so sorry.

    Why do they think your hcg is still going up?

    Are they willing to do a lap to see what the cause is? Have you had any bleeding or anything?
    They haven't said anything about why my hcg rising but I'm waiting to see my GP tonight.

    I have no pain no bleeding no spotting no anything (including no yolk sac ) the endo lining is very thick but that's all they could see....

    I just wish I knew either way living in limbo is killing me...

  6. #24
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Mar 2010
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    I am really sorry to read this...it's the limbo which is most difficult, I hope someone can find an answer for you soon. Please don't turn against each other in this time, it's easy to, but it's most important to come together and stand together if you can xx

  7. #25
    Registered User

    May 2013
    27

    paid elatsD

    Hug ..
    Thank you, much appreciated

    Xx

  8. #26
    Registered User

    May 2013
    27

    I am really sorry to read this...it's the limbo which is most difficult, I hope someone can find an answer for you soon. Please don't turn against each other in this time, it's easy to, but it's most important to come together and stand together if you can xx
    Thank you xx

  9. #27
    Registered User

    May 2013
    27

    That's good. After 6000, HCG levels become irrelevant. A scan will give a better picture. I hope they find something safely in your uterus.

  10. #28
    Registered User

    May 2013
    27

    That's good. After 6000, HCG levels become irrelevant. A scan will give a better picture. I hope they find something safely in your uterus.
    Sadly nothin seen

  11. #29
    Registered User

    Jan 2011
    Perth
    3,268

    Oh baby4please how awful and confusing for you. I hope you can get some more clarity soon. Thinking of you.

  12. #30

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
    2,873

    I hope you get your answers soon. Limbo land sucks. :-( thinking of you.

  13. #31

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
    2,873

    Did the doctor call you back and give you a plan or any idea what was going on?

  14. #32
    Registered User

    May 2013
    27

    Hi all

    I'm currently lying in a hospital bed waiting to go in for surgery they have said they will most likely remove my left tube....

    Will post more when I know...

    Thanks so much for all your support

    Xxxxx

    Guess my partner and I are just not meant to have a baby together

  15. #33

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
    2,873

    Oh I am so sorry hun.

    Did they do another scan and find something?

    Huge hugs.

    Don't give up ... If you guys wanna have a baby there's still a great success rate of falling pregnant with only one tube. I got given the statistic that losing your tube only reduces fertility by up to 15 percent. (I thought it would be more like 50, but it doesn't work that way.)

    Sending much love x

  16. #34
    Registered User

    Oct 2010
    Gold Coast
    2,638

    Hope they can help in best way possible

    It might not be that its not meant to be sometimes some journeys have more bumps in the road, take this as an opportunity to connect to your dh and come out of this for the better together closer I know its hard but I've found it to be so good for us as a couple and made other bumps in the road easier
    Last edited by jellybean88; May 29th, 2013 at 08:46 AM.

  17. #35
    Registered User

    May 2013
    27

    Oh I am so sorry hun.

    Did they do another scan and find something?

    Huge hugs.

    Don't give up ... If you guys wanna have a baby there's still a great success rate of falling pregnant with only one tube. I got given the statistic that losing your tube only reduces fertility by up to 15 percent. (I thought it would be more like 50, but it doesn't work that way.)

    Sending much love x
    They did another scan yesterday and still couldn't find anything in uterus but then can't 100 guarantee its eptopic although that's the most likely as they saw a probable mass near my left ovary.... So I guess until they get in there no one knows for sure what to do etc....

    I'm not sure if I can handle the emotional strain of trying but one day at a time I guess

    Thanks again
    Xxx

  18. #36
    Registered User

    May 2013
    27

    Hope they can help in best way possible

    It might not be that its not meant to be sometimes some journeys have more bumps in the road, take this as an opportunity to connect to your dh and come out of this for the better together closer I know its hard but I've found it to be so good for us as a couple and made other bumps in the road easier
    Thank you jellybean88 xxxxxv

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