Hi - you sound like you've having a rough time and your emotions are all over the place. Being pregnant is such a bizarre time emotionally. I think there is a really wide range of what's considered normal but if you and your partner are worried (and it sounds like you are) then I would agree with Webmeg - go and see your GP - either ask them to assess you or ask for a referral to a psychologist who deals with PND regularly. You probably need a face to face assessment as depression can present in a number of different ways for different people. Depression and anxiety during pregnancy is reasonably common, it doesn't always wait until after the birth. I am not saying you are depressed but getting assessed and keeping an eye on yourself throughout your pregnancy and then beyond is the best thing for you, your DH and your baby.

The other thing you could do is check websites like Beyond Blue - they have quick/brief questionnaires you can do online as well as heaps of information and resources on depression and PND. This may help you as well as you DP decide if you need to do anything further. I'm not sure how you convince your DH you want the baby - keep doing what your doing in telling him I guess. Ask him to come to see the GP with you perhaps?

I wish you all the best and I hope those pesky hormones settle down for you soon. (For what it's worth, I agree with Webmeg, my DP has told me that I am snappy and very quick to take offence and go on the offensive after innocent comments or questions from him. I also really really want my baby but at the same time I'm quite scared about the future and have had at least one major freak out per week so far).