Tascha - I'm sorry for your loss. As for when to try again, I thought exactly the same thing earlier this year. We had a miscarriage at 6 weeks and we started trying again straight away. We didn't get UTD the first month after the miscarriage (my cycle was messed up as a result meaning we DTD at the wrong time) but we were lucky enough to fall pregnant the second month after the MC. Everything has gone well this time. I wish you all the best.